Today there is good news afoot. Good news for our beleaguered justice system and good news for one of the victims of it. First the best of the good news. Bilynda Williams, mother of murdered baby Jaidyn Leskie (1997) has given birth to twins! Bilynda has at different times, been a reader of this site and I hope she reads this when she comes home from hospital.

I am very proud of her, she is the epitome of the Aussie battler. She was dealt a devastating hand in legal terms when her son was murdered. A blow that would have destroyed a lesser person. At the time of young Jaidyn’s death, I along with most of the country, believed she was a hopeless case. A mother who left her son with a moron, who most probably killed him. With the benefit of 20/20 hindsight I now happily concede I was wrong. It was wrong to judge her on the merits of one (admittedly bad) decision. With hindsight and 10 years more maturity, I now see that going out to party when your a mother is not a crime. (Quick rundown for those not familiar with the case. Bilynda went to the pub and left her baby son with a fool named Greg….more on him later in this post. The child was found months later dead, bashed and thrown in a lake weighed down by a crowbar. Greg was tried but acquitted, many people think he is guilty and got away with murder).

Bilynda was a young mother, struggling to raise her children. Going out was a rare treat and she made the most of it, that is not a crime either. Her only real downfall was that she left her child with the wrong person. I suspect the same 10 years that has taught me so much, has taught Bilynda very much more.

Anyway, congratulations Bilynda! Your babies are beautiful, and I wish you all the luck and happiness possible.

Speaking of luck and happiness for Bilynda Williams, this story also came out today.

VICTORIA’S most infamous unsolved murder – that of toddler Jaidyn Leskie – could go back to trial amid calls for changes to Australia’s double jeopardy law.

The Federal Government wants to make retrospective the proposed abolition of the 800-year-old law.

That means those who have already been acquitted of murder, such as the prime suspect in Leskie’s murder, Greg Domaszewicz, could be retried if new evidence has come to light.

I swear on a stack of Black Sabbath (peace be upon OZZY) records that if he is retried and found guilty I will shout a round of drinks for anyone who wishes to show up at my “drink myself into a celebratory stupor” evening.

It will be a momentous day in the history of our justice system. It will finally lay to rest the ghost of young Jaidyn, and his death will not go unsolved.

Bilynda has every right to be a beaming happy mother on this day.

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65 comments so far

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Bautiful babies and I sincerely hope the bastard that killed her son is brought to justice.

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July 9th, 2006 at 12:59 pm
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Me too….and they sure are cuties :D

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July 9th, 2006 at 1:03 pm
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July 9th, 2006 at 3:02 pm
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Paddy, I think if we get Double Jeopardy past the post, and to Rob Hulls disgust signs are looking good, no prise for guessing who will be first cab of the rank for DJ.

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July 11th, 2006 at 2:07 pm
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You will be the very first person I buy a drink for Noel…..don’t forget it!

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July 11th, 2006 at 3:19 pm
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Good post.

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July 12th, 2006 at 1:41 am
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Thank you.

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July 12th, 2006 at 9:39 am
cindy
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hi i use to talk to bilynda in a chat room justice for jaidyn and now i cannot find it do you know if there is still a chat room for the little man i thought it was a good way for people to say what they were feeling and and keep up to date with the case if anyone knows of a chat for him please get back to me thank you.

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January 8th, 2007 at 12:05 am
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Hi Cindy. I’m sorry I don’t know what happened to that site.

Thanks for dropping by.

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January 8th, 2007 at 7:50 am
Bilynda Williams
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Hi Everyone……
I just came across this as I was searching for a particular photograph of Jaidyn on the internet.
I just wanted to say THANKYOU to all of you for your kind wishes….
The girls are now 16 months and they are absaloutley adorable.
(So is Breehanna (now almost 13) and our boys!)
To Patrick – Thankyou for the nice things you said about the girls…… They are everything you said and so much more.
Also can I just say this:
I never tried to make people think that I was a perfect mother because I dont think a perfect one exists,I never ever wanted anyone to feel sorry for me and if they did I would rather them feel sorry for Jaidyn, because this happened to him but I love my kids to pieces and that is one thing I will stand by. I did go out that night, I regret going out that night, and I will never ever forgive myself for going out that night, but for the sake of my remaining 5 children, I have to be strong and I have to move on.
There isnt a day that passes that I dont miss my little Jai. We as parents all make mistakes, mine however was the worst one……
I just hope (if anything) parents can learn by my mistake and see how easy it is to make the wrong decisionand that people you ‘think you know’ aren’t always who you think they are. I never leave my kids with anyone now unless I am 110% sure they will be there when I get back, and believe me it has never been an easy thing to do since leaving Jaidyn that day……
Please……. Do not ever leave your kids with the neighbour from up the street that you only met 2 weeks ago, dont leave them in the car to run into the service station to grab some milk, Dont even leave them in the bath by themselves for 2 seconds while you grab a towell to dry them……..
The consequences are serious and children are Innocent little angels, thier lives are in your hands, DONT MAKE THE MISTAKE THAT I DID……
I know I will never ever be fully 100% happy in my life again and this will always linger over me for the rest of my life….. As long as my kids are happy now, I dont care about me…..
Greg not only took Jaidyn’s life (and yes I am 110% certain ‘now’ he did it) he has ruined my daughters life, she still struggles to cope with what happened and even my kids now (who never met Jaidyn as they were born after it all happened) They always ask about him and infact just the other day my youngest son (5) told me that I could get Jaidyn back if I just wished upon a star and didnt tell anyone otherwise it wouldnt come true.
It just breaks my heart……..

I still hope with all my heart and soul that Justice for Jaidyn will happen someday.
Greg hasn’t gotten away with Murder – He just thinks he has!!!!!!!!
It may take me 20 years but I’ll never give up….. :o (
I will fight for him in death as I would have fought for him in life if given the chance…..
I can’t give him anything else becasue he’s not home with us anymore, but I always promised him Justice and when I promise my kids something I 10/10 make sure my promise is not broken………

And I hope it is a case that if Greg is retried and found guilty because nothing would make me happier than putting him through the hell that Jaidyn went through and what he has done to our lives even 10 years on…
Although, I am a big girl and have taken alot of crap since he did this, all I have ever cared about is Jaidyn and getting some sort of Justice for him.
To Cindy: Yes, I remember you from http://www.justiceforjaidyn.com.au but we started that web site to seek help, more so that if anyone knew anything that they would maybe go into a internet cafe and tell us and maybe give evidence but that never happened with people more interested in giving thier thoughts on what a slime bag Greg was and how he should suffer.
You see the thing is……..
Greg knows he is a slime bag, all the medication and excuses he uses in court (out of the mouths of his lawers of course) I MEAN IF YOU WERE INNOCENT WOULDNT YOU TURN UP TO COURT??
Anwyay pretty good for someone who promised a lie detector test and all that………
Someone said to me a few years ago that I should forgive but never forget…
I cant forget and I will never forgive, but I am certain that Greg does not live a life of happiness, and as much as I would like him to rot in a jail cell, I think his life outside would be more of a hell than inside???
Imagine always wondering who was going to get you? Who was knocking at your door, or who was listening on the phone?
And wondering when and if there is a double jeopardy law change what will become of Greg Domaszewicz………?????????
I know I couldnt live with myself just knowing what happened having it in my memory on a daily basis, I have no doubt he hasn’t gotten away with anything – but there will never be forgiveness…. NOT EVER!
Anyway, OMG it’s been nice to voice my thoughts tonight, I haven’t talked about Jai in so long (other to my husband and kids) so Thankyou
And again, Thanks for your kind wishes on my girls birth, Im just sorry its taken me 16 months to see what you all said…

♥Bilyndaxo

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September 28th, 2007 at 11:15 pm
Ginger
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Well said Bilynda, we often think of you and what you have been through and more importantly what you have lost in not watching your son grow into a young man. Your family sounds delightful, love them, hold them and teach them about trust and love. God Bless

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September 29th, 2007 at 4:26 pm
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Hi Bilynda, thanks for reading!

I am touched by your words.

Maintain the rage!

GD’s day will come. I only hope I am alive to see it.

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September 29th, 2007 at 10:45 pm
Jeremy Williiams
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We all love you and support you in everything you do! your hubby Jezza

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December 14th, 2007 at 6:06 pm
Nicole Morris
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Hello,
My name is Nicole Morris and I run the Australian Missing Persons Register. As I am expanding the site I wanted to get in touch with Bilynda to ask permission to feature Jaidyn on a new page to honour and remember child murder victims. Bilynda, if you’re reading this could you please e mail me and let me know if it’s ok.
thanks and Merry Christmas all,
Nicole Morris
Australian Missing Persons Register

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December 26th, 2007 at 12:31 pm
Kaylie
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I have a son who is 2 weeks younger than Jaidyn and the case touched me. I have watched my son grow up and every so often I would think of Jaidyn and what Bilynda was missing out on. We should get onto our politicians to change the law, now we have a new PM maybe its a good time, bring GD to justice ….finally. Long Live Jaidyn.

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February 10th, 2008 at 8:37 pm
sue thompson
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hi bilynda, jeremy and kids,
my kids say that jaidyn is up in heaven and their nana in the sky is looking after him for bilynda.
take care from sue chris matt hannah nicholas and jessica.

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August 11th, 2008 at 2:57 pm
Shay R
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Wow, Bilynda popped in here herself. I’d be reading everything about me on the net and speaking up too.

I hope you come back Bilynda because there’s something I want to say to you every time your name comes up in book or on the internet. STOP BEATING URSELF UP. I’ve NEVER thought you were a negligent mother for going out to get ratfaced. I’m a young mum like you were & I know for sure I’d go crazy if I didn’t give myself a night out! You just don’t expect the babysitter (especially one who’s intimate with you, calls you princess and has bonded with your child) to kill you child. It’s not THAT frustrating looking after a child for a few hours. Heck, if my kids really annoy until I think I could get angry, I just shut the door on them in a safe room , walk out for a few minutes until I feel better and go back in to get them. How hard is that? Grishka was known to do that to Jaidyn. It’s sad he had to turn off the lights first and leave the poor frightened boy in a darkened room but I’m sure you either didn’t know or just thought he was too stupid to think to turn on the lights and push in some toys while he collected himself.
I do have some trouble understanding why you left him with Greg just a month after Greg beat him black and blue to the point you had to hide Jaidyn from your own family for a month but I know myself I’ve stayed with guys who beat me, myself, my body (which I love somewhat, though not as much as my kids LOL). Love is a beautiful and terrible thing. YOu say now that you hardly knew Greg but I know that in a place like Moe, where I have lived myself, time is condensed. While you may only have known Greg closely for a few months, each week is like a year in a place where there is little to do but live in each other’s pockets (and each other’s beds). There’s little entertainment and I believe you were all on unemployment and broke, so there is truly nothing to do (as you can’t afford to do squat) so you sit, and talk and sit and talk and the weeks pass so slowly that you are almost ready to marry a guy you met 3 weeks ago, because it feels like years… right? So I imagine Greg said something like “yes I bashed Jaidyn, but my medication was wrong. I was on the wrong dose and it wasn’t me. C’mon princess, you KNOW me, I wouldn’t do it! I’ve been to my doctor (he said that he went to the doc after the beating right?) and now I’m on different medication and I’m all better… it will never happen again. If you love me, you’ll trust me and keep letting me hang out with the little Man Man”. Am I right? So pls, don’t blame yourself.

Just today I discussed this case with my husband and noted how showed the private investigator how tall Jaidyn was against your leg (75cm, how do you think he ended up 85cm btw or his hair grown so long.. strange though I believe some growth happens after death) and my husband said “Oh, she was such a negligent mother that she wouldn’t know how tall he was (or how many teeth as I believe you thought he had 5 but there were 8 on the body).”. I was so cross because I’ve seen so many pics of the inside of your house (and seen the outside from when I lived there) and I’ve seen how clean you kept it, despite the kids being kids and the mess they make, how the kids were so well dressed and how your house was nearly wall papered in their photos. If anyone is an excellent mother, you are. That’s what you were born to do. I love mother’s that say “I want to raise my kids, I can handle being poor if I can stay home with them”. (Daycare mother’s don’t be mad, I respect you too for different reasons). I just don’t see you as a bad mother, despite the media representation. It just looked so bad you standing by the man who was on trial for his death all that time. But if I put myself in your shoes, note the fact that the very reason Greg got off was probably the reason you stood by him, that reason being that even though he most likely DID do it, the cops really stuffed up not investing the rest of the stuff like the electric fenced property Tubby had, the sightings nearby in Holbrook and the death threats those ppl made against anyone who poked around out there… all that DOES make Greg’s protestations of innocence seem credible or at least gave him room to convince you. IF you truly believed him innocent, of course you’d stand by him. It just makes me think of you as a good person. A bad person points the finger and destroys someone’s life just because it makes them more popular, or makes them look better. You risked public denigration for the rest of your life to stand by a friend (false friend though they may be).

Even though I’ve never met or talked to you (though I desperately hope you read this and take some comfort) I can see the good in everything you’ve done and in your parenting skills, despite only gaining knowledge through the same media haze that has turned so many against you. I think anyone who cares enough about this case to look closely will also see what I see. In other words, anyone who is very interested sees the good in you, only those with the faintest interest hold negative feelings for you and what do those ppl matter. They probably won’t recognise you on the street.

Good luck in the rest of your life. If anyone deserves it, it’s you.

TC

PS Sorry everyone for writing so much. It’s the only time I’ve felt Bilynda might actually see something I wrote, so I said 9 years of stuff. xx

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November 16th, 2008 at 1:32 am
Shay R
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Wow that’s longer than I thought. There’s no delete or edit button!

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November 16th, 2008 at 1:36 am
cindy treacy
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hi bilynda its cindy hope u and the family is well u really do have beautiful kids so glad i found a place to chat to u again been trying since my computer was stolen and lost all my contacts cindy xoxox

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April 23rd, 2009 at 12:59 am
cindy treacy
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always thinking jaidyn hes a real cutie love cindy

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April 23rd, 2009 at 1:05 am
Observer
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I’m not really sure GD is guilty. I take it though, most of you think so?

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April 24th, 2009 at 6:51 pm
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I can’t speak for anyone else, but yes I certainly do.

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April 24th, 2009 at 11:19 pm
Observer
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Fair enough.

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April 27th, 2009 at 7:58 am
Bilynda Williams
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It’s been 12 years today that I kissed my little boy goodbye, and I still live with a fake smile.. Observer….. I cant speak for anyone else either, but yes I do believe Greg is guilty. .. I just wish I saw it back then…. I will spending the day with Jaidyn today at his grave and that just kills me……… :cry: <3 Bx

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June 14th, 2009 at 3:05 am
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Thinking of you both.

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June 15th, 2009 at 12:36 am
Observer
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Hi Bilynda, I respect your opinion. My son was born same day and year as Jaidyn so I often think of your little boy on my sons birthday. I’ve read just about all I can get my hands on regarding the case … it’s rather complex in terms of the law. Keep strong.

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June 30th, 2009 at 9:14 am
Observer
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With regards to GD – I study profiling so I follow many cases and at this point I just don’t see enough to lay guilt. Robin Bowles’ book (however biased, perhaps) certainly gives insight.

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June 30th, 2009 at 12:23 pm
cindy treacy
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obsever i gd is guitly always and always will i belive that oneday justice willb done and gd gets wats comming to him if this was my son i would fight to death to get justice to and bilynda i agree there is no such thing as a perfect mum no one is perfect and if anyone says they r well their full of it people when u have kids your life does not stop bilynda placed her child in the hands of someone she trusted and he did not give the baby back as a mum she did the right thing she made sure she had a babysitter and the babysitter happen to be her boyfriend so as if she wouldnt think she could trust him and it was his job to make sure that baby jaidyn was safe well cared for and every meet with harms way i belive that even if he didnt do it he still should be held to blame and he and the other people r both 50% each to blame so they all should be locked up but to me it is just hard to belive that he is not the soul person behind all this as 4 everything i have read and the things he says it all points to him now he has a child who is three is docs watching that this baby is well cared for this child is not comming to harms way and wat sort of woman would have a child to him after the way he cared 4 little baby jaidyn not a normal woman thats 4 sure if he has nothing to hide why does he not talk to people on sites like this and have hes say cause hes guilty and dont have the guts wat he thinks if he lives a quiet life from now on we will for get wat he done hell no it dont work that way gd should be a man and give bilynda the answers she needs to put her boy to rest once and 4 all . and who cares how much of a hard life gd has had that dont make wat hes done right and as 4 rafter whos daughter is friends with gd is that right . by looking at gd hes a very strange person and hes lies omg u can see straight threw them hes lied about everything so wats to say hes not lying about everythingto me hes not a person who can be trusted and belive our laws should change i belive is there is more proof that can prove this person did this crime then they should be able to be taken back to court there was a man that seen gd and his car at the place jaidyns body was found and he was seen acting strange the wet money the rope to me hes guilty and when they / police were searching the dump he sat at the farrs house watching the search on tv saying they wont find him there how would he know this only the person who did this would know that .gd says that he finds it hard to live a normal life normal that people r mean to him and that hes paranoid well come on how r people ment to treat him and as 4 being paranoid if he didnt nothing wrong well wats he got to be paranoid about to me all this is a result of being guilty .

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August 18th, 2009 at 10:27 am
cindy treacy
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well i use to support bilynda i do still support jaidyn ashe was a child put in the hands of greg as i said i was a big supporter of bilynda but since then i have read the court findings and she the mother bilynda amitted to kicking jaidyn with her foot please tell me wat sort of a mother kicks her baby i dont care how stressed i was i would never kick one of my kids brett father has broke his arm mum kicked him and in the court findings it says by a witness that mum owed money for drug debt and knowing greg had harmed the child before she still place him in gregs care so bt reading all this i no longer support her but still support jaidyn as he should not have had this happen to him no your life does not end cause you have kids but you as the parent its your dutie to make sure your child does not come into harms way and she failed jaidyn there and failed him by kicking him iam not saying to be mean but belive i have the right to have mmy say and i belive she is to blame as well not just the person who did this

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nicki Reply:

u no wot i love bilynda i think that she made one mistake that she has to live with for the rest of her life u need to shut ur mouth and get a life cause bilynda is innocent u dont expect ur boyfriend to murder ur child u halfwit

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Sandy Reply:

You call Cindy a half wit because she has an opinion. Well 100′s of thousands of people must be half wits. I have read the court transcripts as well and I believe Bilynda Murphy has alot to answer for. She knew her child was missing when she came home and did nothing about it. People are entitled to their opinion as much as you are entitled to yours. Because others opinions arent the same as yours does not mean they are half wits. I think that your mentality of name calling is just what Bilynda Murphy doesnt need in her defence.

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Observer Reply:

Well said, Sandy.

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August 21st, 2009 at 3:44 pm
Observer
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Aug.21, 09. : Have to agree with you on that one Cindy!

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August 24th, 2009 at 5:44 pm
Observer
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http://bioforensics.com/articles/Leskie_decision.pdf

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September 4th, 2009 at 4:14 pm
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Thanks Observer.

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September 9th, 2009 at 3:55 am
Following the case
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Having followed the case I have to agree with Observer. I think there is probably more to this case than we will ever know. My heart goes out to Jaidyn, an innocent little boy who deserved so much better.

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February 12th, 2010 at 9:54 am
Observer
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An innocent little boy who lost his life at the hands of ferals, in my opinion. Shattering. :/

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February 21st, 2010 at 2:25 am
Observer
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God bless your little soul.

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February 21st, 2010 at 2:25 am
Bilynda williams
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That’s fine cindy everyone has thier opinions of me and everyone has a story to tell truth or lie it doesn’t really matter as nobody cares to ask me first just say what they like. And I’m ok with that because gossip doesn’t hurt me anymore… I did not do half the things the media said I’ve done and if you would like FACTS read robin Bowles latest “STORY BOOK” where she writes that I gave birth to two twin BOYS.. The media are out to make dollars they don’t care what they write or who’s lives they destroy but last time I checked my twins were female.. That I can prove!! But that’s ok like I said I’ve never wanted anyone to feel sorry for me and I’m not about to start I came across this site while looking for photos of my son and thought I’d say. Thankyou for the nice wishes on the births of my girls not to have to defend myself to people who read Stories and yes that’s all they are is stories… Robin Bowles proves that and her books are not full of facts they are full of speculation.. Anyone can write a book doesn’t mean it’s the truth..

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Bilynda williams Reply:

And Cindy I don’t knwo where you are reading these allegations or getting your information but i have never owed money for drugs EVER as I don’t do drugs not then and not now I’ve even taken drug tests to prove that. Jaidyns father did not break his arm and I’d really like to know where your getting your info from because it’s absaloute crap!! How would you feel if I wrote a book about you and made up lies? Of course they are going to write things like that it sells stories I mean would you grab a book called the jaidn leskie murder with only that on the cover or would you get the one that said bilynda on drugs Brett breaks jaidyns arm? Words that’s all they are just words… You can assume all you like what happened to Jaidyn because truth is I’m his mother and I still don’t know what happened to my son 13 years later so don’t pretend to know me…

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nicki Reply:

good on ya bilynda u tell her girl ur special and i think ur doing a great job

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Sandy Reply:

So you must be a good friend of Bilynda’s.
For a site that is all about opinion, you certainly dont like anybody having one.
Get over it Nicki. People do think differently to you. Special….lol

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nicki Reply:

well sandy as a matter of fact i dont no her but none of us have a clue what is truth and what is lies but i put myself in her shoes and thought about it so she went out but dont we all she was in a relationship with this bloke i think she has enough brains not to leave them with a stranger as i said earlier she didnt expect greg to murder her son and im sure she regrets that desision every day dont listen to ppl who have no idea bilynda

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sanyy Reply:

That is true Nicki, none of us do know what is truth and what is lies, and also none of us know what it is like to be in Bilynda’s shoes. But dont shoot down people who form their own opinions on a very sensitive subject. I admire you for being so loyal to her. But dont degrade others with that loyalty. I dont think Bilynda would want you to do that either. This poor little boy deserves everyone to band together and find some kind of justice for what happened to him. He is the victim here. This is all about him. No one else.

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Sandy Reply:

Correction on above name :lol:
Sandy not sanyy :oops:

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August 20th, 2010 at 9:00 am
Barbara
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Hi Bilynda- remember me, Barb in Williamstown? Well, mate- a million congrats on your “double trouble” bubbies!! Is this an omen- that double jeopardy will be abolished? Let’s hope so!! Keep your chin up, kid- you are an amazingly strong sheila ,and dinkum Aussies feel proud that you are of our nation.

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September 16th, 2010 at 3:13 pm
Lianne Penfold
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My son is presently 2 months older than Jaidyn was when he disappeared… the thought of anyone hurting him makes my heart stop. I believe GD is responsible, without a doubt in my mind. I have left my older son (now 18) with my mother’s partner who I later discovered had knocked my boy to the ground and kicked him in the ribs when he was about 3… we all make mistakes and we never really know who we are leaving our kids with. This man appeared to be so gentle but you just never know what will set them off… I’m glad Bilynda has been able to continue with some semblance of life, and provide a loving home for her children. I know never a moment would go by without you thinking of your baby. You don’t deserve any of the judgment heaped upon you – you were not the one on trial, however you have the life sentence. RIP beautiful baby boy, I will never ever forget you.

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October 2nd, 2010 at 9:14 pm
Bilynda Williams
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Hi Barbara from Williamstown I dont remember you sorry but thanks for your wishes on my twinnies… Nicki is right everyone is entitled to an opinion so let her have hers, as I said people can judge me all they like it only makes me a stronger person… Been there done that heard it all before how I was apparently negligent to my kids all the rumours about how long jais hair was and how many teeth who did what and blah blah blah, nothing shocks me good to see I have HATERS on here coz while they are attacking me they are leaving someone else alone……… I will say this though, Thanks to all that are keeping Jaidyn alive in thier hearts and if you want to help Jaidyn so much HELP GET THE DOUBLE JEOPARDY LAWS CHANGED instead of wasting YOUR OWN valuable time attacking me coz your words are a waste of your time and mine!! :roll:

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October 28th, 2010 at 12:26 pm
lisa rae
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I dont think Bilynda should of been allowed to have more children. She has no sense of right or wrong. Sleeping with her sisters husband is totally sick. Then to have kids that are cousins/brother and sister. She cared more about drinking and having fun then caring for her kids. I am expressing my opinion on something that could and should of never happened. She is at fault as well as Greg. She was a negligent mother.

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Observer Reply:

Sadly, I agree Lisa rae. :/

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Lianne Penfold Reply:

what gives anyone the right to judge whether she should have had more children? inbred children and partner sharing happens a lot more than people like to think… this situation wasn’t ideal, it’s just that this particular situation was made known – how well does anyone really know anyone else?

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lisa rae Reply:

Bilynda put herself out for the world to judge her. Maybe where you are from inbreding and partner sharing are common but I happen to live in a place where we find it disgusting.

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Observer Reply:

My concerns did not and don’t arise with regard to inbreeding. A totally different branch of the tree here, however each to their own opinion. I do though, agree with Lisa rae … there was definitely negligence with regard to this little boy’s welfare. I realise it happens all the time, however, that does NOT make it right nor is it condoned. Or at least shouldn’t be. It’s not our call to judge – our opinion is through our eyes only. And personally, my eyes inform me of a terrible tragedy that could’ve been avoided way, way earlier with Jaidyn. So, so sad. This is where a mother’s instincts SHOULD have kicked in.But that is something that Bilynda has to live with for the rest of her life. :/

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Observer Reply:

Lianne, lift your standards please.

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lisa rae Reply:

The issue changing the Double Jeapardy law is not only stupid but a waste of time. The law was put in place for a reason.I dont support changing the law. Yes what happened was sad,but it was preventable and no one is paying the price for it. Changing the laws for the sake one sad excuse for a mother would be a great injustice to our legal system.Maybe just maybe if the police had gotten the cooperation they needed when they needed it by certain people,Greg would not free today. But now we will never know.

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Lianne Penfold Reply:

lift my standards? what on earth do you mean? i am not suggesting that sleeping with her sister’s husband is in any way ok, just commenting that alot of that kind of thing does go on, no matter where anyone is from… has anyone ever looked at the sexual history of a celebrity for example? it’s certainly not something i would choose to be involved in, yet i don’t think that anyone really has the right to judge her on that as it’s not the issue.
she did not put herself out there to be judged by one and all, she did not choose for her baby to be murdered, and he WAS murdered, i think that’s what everyone is losing sight of here.
any single person that i leave my child with is a risk… people can snap and bad things happen – we are the very very lucky ones that this has never happened to. it’s just unfortunate that the person this did happen to, had an unsavoury personal life.
a household like greg’s is not somewhere i would leave my child, but then, it wasn’t my child.

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November 5th, 2010 at 7:25 pm
Observer
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When you leave your child (not once, but many times) with an alleged abuser and you are aware of prior abuse, indeed you do put yourself up for judgement. It’s called pushing the envelope despite the warning signs. I too disagree with abolishing the douple jeopardy law. What’s done is done. It won’t bring Jaidyn back. But in my opinion, it wouldn’t make me think any better of Jaidyn’s mother and the performances that occurred during this dear little boy’s short life. How many precedents was Jaidyn subjected to, how many sirens were blatantly blaring to this woman? Not good enough. If you cannot handle what comes with having and raising children, do not have them. One has a choice.

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November 22nd, 2010 at 2:52 pm
Bilynda Williams
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I will not be visiting here anymore, you people dont know me, you obviously have nothing better to do than judge others, so have fun with it all, you can think what you like of me and my past, but I WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO FOUGHT FOR JAIDYN “THE ONLY ONE” and yes I made mistakes but Im the one that has to live with them not you. I paid the highest price possible but I didnt come here to be judged, or have to prove myself, say what you liek do what you like but none of you can take my memories and my children are my life just as Jaidyn is, I have far better things to do than put up with judgemental people like you who THINK YOU KNOW ME……………… Goodbye x

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November 25th, 2010 at 9:47 am
Bilynda Williams
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And just to Lisa Rae, I have 6 children including Jaidyn and you are welcome to come over to my home and meet them and make sure they are ok if you like, but if you would rather just sit back on your computer and judge me then so be it………..

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lisa rae Reply:

I really dont care what you do with your life. The fact that you felt getting drunk was more important then your childs safety is the issue and all these years later you still dont take any of the blame.You are just as much to blame as Greg. You have not matured, your just as childish as you were back then. As far as judging you, I am not the only one in Australia that feels this way about you. Get use to it, you are not an innocent victim. The only innocent victims were Jaidyn, Breehanna and Brett.

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lisa rae Reply:

If you happen to read this Bilynda- It is good that you seem to have gotten your act together. I hope your children are happy and healthy. I am not discrediting your parenting skills now, just your actions in the past. You dont seem to understand why people judge you. If you dont want someone to judge you then you should not go on opinion forums and then get mad when you read something you dont like. I would hope that after all these years you would be able to respect that people have made their own verdicts in this horrible event. Maybe I was wrong to express what I feel because you are clearly in no shape to deal with any sort of conflict. I had a talk with a co-worker who pointed out that I may have been a bit to harsh to you and you may see this as attacking you. If you think that then I am sorry. Perhaps for your own well being you should not go on forums because you cant seem to handle it very well.

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November 25th, 2010 at 9:49 am
Observer
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Bilynda, fighting for your children includes surveying whom you leave them with – how much and how often you drink alcohol, NOT falling comatose after a night on the piss when one has a child at home or wherever you left him. How on earth can you expect others not to judge when YOU and only YOU could have prevented this situation (regardless of whether it’s their call)? This wasn’t a first time offence against Jaidyn, I believe? My goodness, what is you want, complete sympathy? It doesn’t work that way. I have an opinion based on Jaidyn’s treatment, however, yes you are correct it does not give me the right to judge. I’m speaking of prior treatment of Jaidyn and how, in my opinion the whole situation could’ve been avoided. How can you learn from the past if you are unable to take any type of constructive criticism? I know it may sound harsh and very painful. But this is not a movie. It was a life, a beautiful life. Surely, in your heart of hearts you know you are responsible in some way for the loss of your son? And if you truly believe in what you are saying on this forum, you wouldn’t be arcing up. Again, you have to live with your past choices. :/

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November 25th, 2010 at 2:59 pm
Observer
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Happy Birthday sweet Jaidyn.

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April 30th, 2011 at 12:14 pm
Beth Thomas
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Can anyone please tell me what type of dogs Greg had? I’ve read he had 3, but what types/species were they?

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September 19th, 2011 at 11:50 am
Catriona
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Hi Bilynda.

I remember Jaidyn’s case pretty well I was a teenager at the time. I want to let you know that I feel the way the media portrayed you and your family was IMO totally unfair. You were so young at the time struggling to bring up two kids that cannot have been easy most young people aren’t ready for that type of responsibility that young. You did the best you could. How are all your kids going now? Young Breehanna must be a teen right? Anyway I hope things are going well for you and your family.

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January 4th, 2012 at 11:55 am

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