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Jul

Why I hate people

   Posted by: Patrick   in In The news, Patrick

I am a little late on this particular story. As most people know, newspapers only keep their stories up for around seven days, so I am reproducing the entire article below because it is near its “vanishing point”

This story illustrates perfectly why I the Paddy, live the life of a veritable hermit. I hate people. Oh I like mankind just fine, we are capable of creating things of the most breathtaking beauty. We are capable of the most staggering of great deeds. Mankind is OK, its the individuals I hate.

This appeared in The Australian newspaper on the 17th of July.

Save the children
The killing of a toddler and sexual abuse of his sister demand answers as to why parents are allowed to retain custody of children they fail to protect, reports Christine Jackman
July 17, 2006

SHE abandoned her children to the full-time care of two men she had just met at a train station, without asking for their last names and without leaving her phone number.

Three weeks later, her three-year-old son had been anally raped and repeatedly given electric shocks before dying of indeterminate causes. Her six-year-old daughter, who had almost certainly witnessed her little brother’s agonising last hours, had also endured multiple sexual assaults.

And yet at the trial of the monster who had destroyed her children’s lives, “Renae Lennon” could barely make the effort to reply to questioning by the Crown prosecutor, who was seeking to put serial sex offender William Thomas Clare away for murder. If the 35-year-old prostitute and nursing home aide displayed any emotion at all, it was resentment at being called to the witness box.

Asked if her son “Jeremy” had shown any changes in behaviour in the weeks leading up to his horrific death, Lennon replied: “Yes, he became more obnoxious.”

As usual for Lennon (whose name has been changed only to protect the identity of her daughter “Bianca”, now a state ward) it was a striking understatement and startling in its lack of empathy for her children’s wellbeing.

An in-depth examination of evidence tendered in the two trials of Clare, including several statements by Lennon herself, reveals that alarm bells should have been ringing for her by the night of her son’s murder.

Her two boisterous, fair-haired offspring were crying out for help from the person who nature — and the law in Australia — decrees should care most: their mother.

Jeremy did not just become “more obnoxious” during the time he had spent in the grubby one-bedroom flat shared by Clare and 64-year-old Keith Coles, a pensioner and former council worker.

The little boy, who had been fully toilet-trained for almost a year, had suddenly begun urinating on the carpet, as if somehow reluctant to go into the bathroom.

Bianca’s behaviour had changed, too. She was “more cheeky”, Lennon said in later interviews, and had begun answering her mother back when Clare brought the children to visit her for an hour or two each afternoon.

But by Saturday, September 13, 2003, Bianca was clearly desperate for her mother’s help. As Lennon made salami-and-cheese sandwiches for dinner, Bianca revealed she was “angry” at Clare because he would not stop “looking at her private parts”.

It was the sort of statement that would make most parents’ blood run cold. Even Lennon, who by then had a long history of leaving her children in filthy circumstances or with inappropriate carers (at least one, and possibly two, of whom had already sexually interfered with Bianca), recognised the distress in her daughter’s voice.

“I think she was too scared to tell me (more),” Lennon said in an interview less than a week after Jeremy’s death.

“She was upset. She didn’t want it to happen, you could tell.”

But, as in the courtroom during Clare’s trial, Lennon could not find the interest or the energy to act on behalf of her children.

“I wanted to talk to him (Clare) about why he was looking at her and (tell him) not to,” she said later, “but my head was throbbing over my left eye and he said, ‘I’ll take the kids over to my place so you can get some rest’. That was the last time I saw my sonalive.”

In October 2004, Clare was sentenced to 16 years’ jail for raping Bianca at least five times in the week before Jeremy’s death.

Last week he was also found guilty of the little boy’s manslaughter, after admitting to anally raping and repeatedly shocking him with the 240-volt current from an exposed power cord. He remains in Goulburn prison and will be sentenced at a later date.

But has justice been done? For the politically correct, and those whose ideology casts women as perpetual victims rather than protagonists in their own lives, perhaps. But for those who believe a parent is ultimately responsible for the care and wellbeing of their children, two questions still hover like ghosts around the memory of Jeremy Lennon.

The first: why was Renae Lennon allowed to walk away from the Supreme Court in Sydney, still surly, resentful and apparently absolved of any responsibility for her children’s miserable fate?

The second: why are government authorities who are charged with protecting children, and given budgets running to billions of dollars of taxpayers’ money to do so, rarely held accountable when at-risk children are left without help until they are physically broken, sexually degraded or dead?

Tragically, the case of Bianca and Jeremy Lennon is no aberration. In the year Jeremy died, so too did 83 other children known to the Department of Community Services in NSW alone. In 2004, the last year for which these type of figures are publicly available, 72 such children died.

Reviewing these deaths, NSW Ombudsman Bruce Barbour said many of these fatalities had “no connection to child protection concerns”.

But dozens of other children died after DoCS had repeatedly closed their files without further investigation, even when rated “Priority One” or high risk, or because case workers had been given “informal undertakings” by mothers that things would improve.

One such “undertaking” was made by Renae Lennon in July 2001, after the woman’s two flatmates took Jeremy to hospital when he returned from a visit to Renae’s parents with severe bruising around his throat and jaw. While at the hospital, Bianca disclosed to a nurse that “I have a sore wee-wee”.

Notes from a subsequent medical examination state she “promptly parted her labia without requiring this specifically”, an act considered unusual in a child who is sexually naive. Doctors found foreign pubic hair during the exam, supporting Bianca’s revelations that “John”, Lennon’s boyfriend at the time, had “put his nuts in my wee-wee” and “I’ve sucked (them)”.

Concerned hospital staff told DoCS that Lennon appeared “flat” and disinterested in her daughter’s stomach-churning disclosure.

But the case worker ultimately decided the children should remain in her care, insisting that DoCS give her further support and that Lennon had given an “informal undertaking” to keep her boyfriend away from the children.

Within three weeks, however, Lennon moved house and DoCS was unable to track her down — until the children turned up two months later, alone in a filthy flat, with nothing but bread crusts to eat and wearing urine-soaked clothes.

When confronted with such harrowing evidence of their failures, the official response from DoCS has usually been that the department is chronically under-resourced or that it is in the process of implementing a five-year, $1.2billion reform package begun in2003.

With close to 200,000 reports of child neglect or abuse received each year, it is true the department faces a Herculean task.

But is demanding more money and more case workers the only answer? A small but growing band of children’s advocates are beginning to speak out, to point the finger at a prevailing orthodoxy within the social work and legal professions that assumes “a bad mother (or family) is better than no mother atall”. Rosemary Sheehan, a pre-hearing conference convenor at the Melbourne Children’s Court and self-described social worker of the “older generation”, is one who takes the “heretical” view that some people should simply never be allowed to be parents.

Sheehan, whose work on decision-making in child protection cases is internationally recognised, says these are often people who have themselves been abused as children, or have serious drug or alcohol addictions, or suffer mental health problems or intellectual disabilities.

“It’s immensely sad, but in my experience there are people who neither have the capacity nor the motivation to parent,” Sheehan says. “They don’t attach at all (to their children) and they have neither the insight nor the empathy to care for them properly.”

She says social work previously drew on medical training, particularly in psychiatry, that acknowledged some people had suffered such damage, either through abuse, drugs or their own genetic history, that their brains simply did not have the capacity to “love” their children adequately.

But in the 1980s an “explosive shift” replaced this approach with an assumption that “all parents love their children, and if something goes wrong, if they show aberrant behaviour, there are socio-economic or class reasons for that”.

Sheehan explains: “If you ask these workers why haven’t they removed certain children, they would say a child is better off with their parents and that the mother will somehow ‘get it’ and change, given the right services and support. But all the services in the world can only work where a parent is motivated to change and has the capacity to do so.

“It’s a complete failure to see the child as an individual. We don’t want to ‘revictimise’ the mother so we victimise the child instead.”

A plethora of anecdotal evidence also suggests many social workers single-mindedly support the mother, often without examining alternatives, particularly grandparents or fathers.

In the Lennons’ case, the children’s paternal grandmother, Judith Graham, says their father “Sam” was cut out of their lives after Lennon and her family demanded he move out.

His child-support cheques were never cashed, dates for contact visits were cancelled and phone calls with the children undermined, and boxes of toys and clothes sent for Christmas and birthdays were returned unopened to the paternal family.

The first time they learned of the shocking abuse and neglect of the children was when a DoCS worker rang Graham after Jeremy’s death, to tell her to be in court for a custody hearing for Bianca.

Minutes later, the home fax whirred into life and began spewing out page after page of horrific detail of Bianca’s sexual abuse.

“Before then they had never told my son anything, so we just didn’t know,” Graham says. “We held out a lifeline so many times. But, in the end, I had to tell myself that she was their mother, that she had the support of her mother, and that surely she would care for her children.

“You look back and you feel guilty. You think, ‘if only I had done this or that, if only I’d done more’. I’ll probably feel that way for the rest of my life.”

They are poignant, heart-rending words. If only Renae Lennon, or the many social workers who were loath to “revictimise” her, had felt the same.

There is so much wrong with that whole story I barley know where to begin. Putting aside the horror of the childrens lives lets look at this line for a second.

If the 35-year-old prostitute and nursing home aide displayed any emotion at all, it was resentment at being called to the witness box.

This bitch is a nursing home aide!!! She is let loose in the same building as our vulnerable elderly! So filled with compassion is this wench that the only emotion she seemed to show throughout the ordeal was “resentment” at being called to the witness stand. I bet the elderly people in the home in which she works just love her.

OK, I know I can be harsh in my ramblings, I have even been called a Nazi at times, but I have a solution. William Thomas Clare should be shot/hanged/put to sleep/electrocuted whatever and Renae Lennon should be immediately sterilized lest she bear any more fodder for the sexual perverts she acquaints with.

As for social services in this case they were as useless as tits on a chook, but even if they had worked with 100% efficiency that would not fix or even help the actual cause. By sterilising that bitch there will be no more problems with her unwillingness to look after the children unfortunate enough to be born to her. By killing William Thomas Clare (Even though Mirko may well disagree) he can no longer torture and rape children. Rehabilitate be stuffed. The only way to be 100% certain that children are safe from monsters like him, is to kill the monsters and that is a fact.

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19 comments so far

dee
 1 

This is why I like my cat far more than I like most human beings.

I would object to calling this woman a human being, but unfortunately actions like this are all too *human*.

July 21st, 2006 at 1:33 pm
rachy
 2 

I’m sadly not surprised she is a nursing home aide. As I also need personal carers I understand only too well the sometimes extremely poor quality of care provided. One of my previous carers agencies have sent some of the most horrific standard of carers to look after me in my own home, including a rapist as well as track-marked wenches. There are always excuses why society fails its most vulnerable, those being children, the disabled and the elderly, and more needs to be done about it. I don’t care if people talk about the lack of funding, that’s not good enough.

That bitch should fry.

July 21st, 2006 at 3:57 pm
 3 

My head is spinning with this one…my short response is this…

Bring back the fucking DEATH PENALTY.

July 21st, 2006 at 9:00 pm
 4 

And Mirko…

…What a clown.

July 21st, 2006 at 9:40 pm
 5 

Dee, I like the cats too but I think I prefer the dogs to most people.

Rachy…It’s not good enough.

Boz…No matter how I box and dice it, no matter how sensitive and new age I try to be about things like this, my instinct my very being tells me KILL THE BASTARD.

July 21st, 2006 at 11:53 pm
Tim
 6 

Not for the first time I consider the attractions of misanthropy as a life-long philosophy.

July 22nd, 2006 at 2:15 am
 7 

At the very least, the woman should be charged with criminal neglect if not manslaughter.

Sometimes, the only alternative is the death penalty.

July 22nd, 2006 at 2:25 am
 8 

I’d fly to Australia and kill her free of charge.

The problem with the death penalty (at least here in the States) is that the criminals get SO MANY appeals and delays, that they often aren’t executed for 30+ years after their convictions.

I say, bullet to the back of the head behind the courthouse.

July 22nd, 2006 at 5:28 am
 9 

I say, bullet to the back of the head behind the courthouse.

God I miss America!

July 22nd, 2006 at 11:54 am
 10 

I’d like to be allowed to spend five minutes alone with the bitch. Just five minutes… perhaps less. Two would probably do it. Just me, my outrage, and my bare hands!

You see, my granddaughter was abused by her mother’s boyfriends. She was my son’s daughter whose mother kidnapped from him. She finally left my grandaughter with a cousin at the age of 5, and her wonderful mother’s cousin put her in a foster home! We adopted her at the age of 6 and spent a lot of time and effort helping this child turn out a wonderful person… which she is. She graduated highschool this year and is off to college in August. So you see, I’ve seen this up close and personal. The only reason I didn’t attack her birthmother in court is because it would not have done my granddaughter any good whatsoever. She needed me, and I would have done her no good in jail. But I have to tell you, it was very tempting.

July 23rd, 2006 at 11:37 am
 11 

I may be naive Gayle on account of the fact that I have no children myself, but I firmly believe kids need a loving environment to flourish.

The poor kids this reprobate spat out have little or no chance (as the death of one of them already will attest).

It is heartbreaking. It makes me want to sweep the poor girl up and protect her from the filth she is forced to be around. Ya know what? If I did that guess who would be in deep shit?

July 23rd, 2006 at 11:45 am
Ginger
 12 

This is what Tony, the convener of a support group called DIDs (Dads In Distress) had to say about the above article. He also pasted the article on his website.

The story below will shock you and I hope it does. As a survivor of child sexual abuse myself I found it hard to read.I had to stop several times and go outside for a smoke and a tear. My heart goes out to those two little children and the many who suffer child sexual abuse. I continually receive calls and emails from divorced dads who go to the authorities to report concerns about their children re new partners etc. They tell me the authorities are rarely interested. They think you are just trying to get back at your ex-wife,they report. ‘No-one wants to listen, or they think you are just trying to obtain custody of the children from the mother.
.A couple of years ago I asked a senator and some friends in media to help me voice the concerns of a dad in Victoria whose little girl and little boy were in the hands of mum and a new partner who was about to go before the courts on a charge of raping a 12 year old girl.The dad was frantic, here was this guy about to go up on a rape charge and had free reign with this dads little girl and boy. The Department of Human Services would not listen or act. The dad simply wanted his children to be safe. After pressure from us they acted.The children were protected. The partner eventually went to jail for his crime. The dad gave the children back to mum once he knew they would be safe. Real fathers would be outraged by the story below. Real fathers simply want to protect their children.When dads divorce they generally have to fight through the courts to have mere access or contact with their own flesh and blood, their children. Yet a new partner who they have absolutely no knowledge of their background gets free reign with their children.The statistics tell the story.

Please take some time out today in thought or prayer for these little ones.

My thanks as a survivor to Christine Jackman and ‘The Australian’ for the guts to write and publish a story that people don’t want to hear, but needed to be told.
Tony Miller dids

July 25th, 2006 at 2:06 pm
Misha
 13 

Unfortunately, I know this family. THough I have not been in contact with them since the birth of their daughter. The fathers family are fantastic. Law abiding, gentle people. The mothers side though… what can I say. The mothers parents are fat, pot smoking, dirty, dirty people. The mother of these two poor little souls is a selfish person. Sheehan has sumed it up correctly in that people of this nature just never bond with their children. They see them as a liability & show no love for them.
I know that the daughter has been taken from the mother, that may ease your minds a little.
I agree with you all. The mother should be shot. She should have all her reproductive organs ripped from her body. She shows no signs of loss, of disghust for her sons murderer. Nothing a normal parent would show. She is an idiot.
I have horrible guilt that I have known these people & this poor little boy has been stolen from this world with nothing wonderful ever happened in his short life. I read the newspaper articles & just shake my head, tears running down my face at what a horrible life this poor little kid has had.
Meeting a stranger at a train station & then letting him have your children at his house for a month is absolutely stupid. I just can’t believe it. I can’t understand what this woman was thinking. She lives in her own little world. She & all her friends are absolutely mad. Her family is mad. They all live like pigs. They are filthy & stupid. I hate them. I hate them for what they have done to that poor little boy. I hate them for the pain they have caused that little girl. I hate them for giving that horrible raper pleasure at the childrens expense. All so she, the horrible fat whore, could go out & party.
I have massive regrets. If I had not been so selfish & stayed friends with this woman I could have seen what these children were going through. I could of interveined. I could of put a stop to this. I just didn’t realise that this would happen. I didn’t think she could be that dumb to not come to the rescue of her own children. I am so sorry. Little babes. Sorry you were born to a shit head & that I was not there for you, to save you & bring some happiness to your lives. I hope now that you can rest.
Misha.

August 14th, 2006 at 8:30 am
 14 

Misha

In these tragic circumstances there is always enough guilt to go around. I can tell you feel very guilty, but standing on the outside looking in, the mother is the sole one to blame. Mothers are supposed to take care of their children, to protect them.

She failed miserabley. Please don’t take her failure on your shoulders.

August 14th, 2006 at 10:10 am
Tony
 15 

I’m 6′6″ 112kg… Gimme them both and I’ll remove a filth which scars humanity

August 14th, 2006 at 6:29 pm
 16 

Start out here…

http://www.whotohate.com

August 26th, 2006 at 2:13 am
sharyn
 17 

Ever since I went to kindergarten I have found myself amazed at the cruelty and stupidity of the majority of people I meet. I honestly don’t like people much and the more I have been educated, the less I like them! I cannot understand a social mentality that allows an innocent child to die of starvation on one side of the world, but refuses to put down people like John Mark Carr and “renae lennon”. At least, I agree, sterillize her. If she follows the regular pattern for creatures like her (not much cerebral function going on here), she will make sure she gets pregnant again and collects her payment for this from the govt. once this is paid, she can “live off” the child until it is removed and then start the process over again. I have seen this happen constantly when I worked in child protection and quit in disgust at the way the entire system was run. As for Carr, he is not worthy to be deemed human. His entire person is warped so badly that he could never function as a decent person in our society, why should we pay to let him take up space, and the same for his friend, who must have some responsibility for this. As for the uselessness of child protection, it is time some of our highly paid law professionals took on a pro-bono case and sued the govt. for failing to provide a service that actually works. As for the comments about care workers – what do people expect? Nobody who has half a brain or any type of education is going to want to work for the lowest wages in the country doing a more commonly very unpleasant job. The “love of it” won’t pay the rent, after all. I have noticed the comments on this site by people who use carers, and their attitude toward them is a good example of how the majority of carers are treated by the people the care for – like a slave – (I loved the comment “wench”) – that should be grateful to feed them and wipe their arse for next to nothing in return! You get what you pay for and you get back what you give. You have a bad attitude to your carers and you get “renaes” sent to care for you, you refuse to pay a proper wage and you get “renaes” to care for you, so stop whining, speak (again) to the govt.because obviously carers are not supposed to need a decent wage in this country. In fact it is people who have that shit eating attitude toward carers that put off decent people from applying, so your quality of care will never improve while your attitude doesn’t.

August 27th, 2006 at 11:09 am
Emma
 18 

:evil: People like this should not have children!!!!
The sad thing is that there are quite a few people who are like this, people who are so incrediably selfish that there own childrens lives just don’t seem to matter. I just hope that the little girl will now be given the love and care that she deserves. It makes me so angry to read that a mother can do this although sadly it doesn’t supprise me infact i know the situation all to well! This woman does not deserve to be a mother and should be locked away. Im disgusted that she complained about having to be at the hearing with what she did to her children she has no right to complain. Children just seem to contiually be innocent victums in thier parents messed up lives. It needs to stop, more children need to be helped and this problem needs to be recognised and something needs to be done :!:

October 22nd, 2007 at 12:30 pm
 19 

Hi Emma, thank you for commenting.

It’s a difficult call is it not? Walking a fine line between looking after kids and persecuting innocent adults.

I too would like to see kids better looked after, but the problem with introducing more laws (and more bureaucrats to enforce them) is that innocent people, usually men divorcing their wives, fall victim to them unfairly.

I’m not sure what the answer is.

October 23rd, 2007 at 10:07 am

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